If I can stop one heart from breaking, I shall not live in vain; If I can ease one life the aching, or cool one pain, or help one fainting robin/unto his nest again, I shall not live in vain. -Emily Dickinson
I began blogging only a week ago- 10 days to be precise. When I entered this blogospere, I was overtaken, and somewhat discouraged, by the fear that I will have no audience to hear what I have to say. On my second day as a blogger on WordPress, I had managed to procure 2 followers. I was overwhelmed. At least two blessed persons want to hear me out! The feeling was out of the world.
And today, after eight days following that precious achievement, there are more than a hundred people willing to read my blog! There are so many who think like I do, so many who agree with me, who have gone through what I have. My brand new blog has reached out to so many people in one week. Do you want to hear the simple truth behind this fine development, in one word? Reciprocation.
As one of my fellow (and much more experienced) bloggers mySestina beautifully puts it, you cannot, and should not, expect people to acknowledge your blog if you refuse to acknowledge theirs. Whether you like their work or not is a different matter altogether. But it doesn’t hurt to give it a chance, right? This simple principle holds good not only for blogs, but for the world in general. For once, keep aside your ego and that ghastly pride. Show a little appreciation, motivate a little, criticize even more. What have you got to lose anyway?
I hope my banter did not waste your time. I hope whatever I just wrote reaches out to all those newbies like me who aren’t sure how to proceed, who are simply intimated by all the greatly experienced and brilliant writers on this platform. I thank every one of you who have given me the chance to prove myself, and been the reason for the boost in my self-esteem. The journey has just begun.
Congratulations my lovely lady.. More than 100 followers in a matter of 10 days is absolutely stunning! I wish you get connected to more amazing people and receive their love as you love them back.. I must thank you for giving me the credit to have inspired you. It gives me immense pleasure to learn that a little bit of me can bring some positivity around. We are all capable to loving each other, so why not! I Welcome you to the Blogger’s Pool and thank you at the same time to be huge support to make it an enjoyable pool to take a dive in…. Cheers! and way to go
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hey congrats! I am surprised within 10 days you got 100 followers…that’s nice 🙂 cause I am blogging since 4 months but still my followers are around 55…great job 🙂
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See? This is exactly what I meant when I talked about reciprocation. Acknowledge more blogs, reach out to more people, hear what they have to say. Communication is the key to recognition. Good day! 🙂
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yaa I noticed it ….and I understood…looking forward to the process of reciprocation..thank you for mentioning it..have a nice day ahead 🙂
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Mysestina said golden words!Congratulations friend.:)
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Congratulations. Pretty good in a week 🙂
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Hi! Yeah, thank you so much! 🙂
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That’s awesome! Congratulations! And it’s such s huge inspiration for other new bloggers including me 😀 Good luck on your blogging journey and cheers to more such achievements.
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Glad that my post could inspire at least one person 🙂 keep writing
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Nominated you for a liebster award
https://zoe169.wordpress.com/liebster-award-x-2/
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Geez, thanks! 🙂
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Congratulations. That’s an incredible achievement for 10 days! MySestina’s advice was golden. Happy blogging. 🙂
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Thanks!
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That was some good advice
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It was.
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mysestina is cool, idk 😄
congrats mate
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Congrats! That’s awesome! ☺️
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Thanks!
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Congratulations, that is awesome! 😊
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You have managed to make an older man ( and grandad!) Cry ! Thank you from the deepest part of my heart.
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Thank YOU 🙂
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You made me proud! I only have ca. 20 followers ! … but your deffinatly one of my favourite 3! 😉 keep up the exelent work.
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My most sincere congrstulations! 😉
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Congratulations this is awesome and I relate with everything you said still being fairly new myself. Being heard, feedback and recognition is so important, but should not only be received but also be given.
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Hi! It’s really good to hear from someone you have something in common with 🙂 hope your ride on WordPress is an enjoyable one
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Thank you very much, it is very fulfilling and enjoyable. Best to you.
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Congratulations
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Thanks!
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😊
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Congrats 🙂
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:’)
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Congratulations! Much better than shouting into the void.
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Thanks!
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That’s amazing!
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Many congratulations dear! This is just begginning! Way to go
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Wow, that’s amazing! Congratulations! 😄
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Thanks!
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Congrats😊👍
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Thank you 🙂
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Congratulations
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COngrats! 🙂
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Thanks!
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Wow that grate news
Congratulations!!
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You did amazing to get those 100! Well done! I am still trying but your post has inspired :)) thank you x
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Glad I could help, thanks 🙂
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Congratulations!
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Thanks!
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Congratulations 🙂 u are so cute 🙂
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Thanks 🙂
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Congratulations
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Brilliant and well deserved. Well done. Keep it up.
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Newbie right here! Your post didn’t waste my time, not even one bit. Gave me the hope to chase away the doubts I’ve been faced with.
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Glad 🙂 also, as an advice to a newbie, remember the ‘reciprocation’ point. 🙂
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I’ll be sure to do that. Thanks!☺️
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Thanks on this advice of yours and I also have a kind of request that do mind checking my two posts that I had posted I can use some pointers specifically about my writing
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Will do.
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Wow , I just stumbled upon your blog and I am in awe , I don’t even believe i can write but i have the desire to just put everything into writing, I am learning though, reading from blogs like these gives me hope..
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Reciprocation! Love this!
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